Comments for bleuemoon http://bleuemoon.com i write about: despair, anxiety, frozen yogurt, red sox, philosophy, theology, family, religion, love, life in nyc as a bostonian! ;) Sat, 05 May 2012 12:36:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ Comment on do i deserve better? by Kimberly Mitchell (Brauch-Schmidt) http://bleuemoon.com/2011/03/18/do-i-deserve-better/#comment-737 Sat, 05 May 2012 12:36:21 +0000 http://bleuemoon.com/?p=496#comment-737 Oh yeah….if you like to read more of my writing, please go to my website, http://www.lovingwithpurpose.org

All the best,
Kim

]]> Comment on do i deserve better? by Kimberly Mitchell (Brauch-Schmidt) http://bleuemoon.com/2011/03/18/do-i-deserve-better/#comment-736 Sat, 05 May 2012 12:34:58 +0000 http://bleuemoon.com/?p=496#comment-736 I realize this is an old post, but the advice remains the same. So here goes…I have come to realize that most guys are going to hurt our feelings at one time or another…because they think so differently from us. I think we need to change some of how we think about our situations. For example, we need to set expectations, and speak up when those expectations aren’t met. Also, we need to recognize the difference in the sexes and decide that we have to appreciate that some of what happens isn’t personal (easier said than done). Combining the two, expectations and acceptance, we will find a happier balance. As far as not considering your feelings, how we deal with it is a choice each of us has to make. Perhaps if you aren’t available to him as you normally would be, he may start to see that he needs to communicate more…or you’ll find something else to do with your time. Of course, make sure you’re communicating to him, too.

Just a note, from one person who wrote many letters and emails in her time, most of our communication comes not through the words we use, but in how we say them and our body language. I’ve given wrong impressions many times through life and I have finally learned that whatever I put to paper may be construed incorrectly. I can only hope that it’s being heard in the right way.

You might want to give the fingers a rest and sit across from him. Start by saying, “We need to talk.” That makes most people sit up and take notice that whatever comes next is important. Good luck!

]]> Comment on dating not dating by Jeremi McManus http://bleuemoon.com/2011/01/15/dating-not-dating/#comment-722 Mon, 09 Apr 2012 20:33:00 +0000 http://bleuemoon.com/?p=475#comment-722 Ambivalence, I totally relate!

]]> Comment on those closest to our heart by bleuemoon http://bleuemoon.com/2012/03/26/those-closest-to-our-heart/#comment-713 Mon, 26 Mar 2012 15:24:07 +0000 http://bleuemoon.com/2012/03/26/those-closest-to-our-heart/#comment-713 Thanks andy1076! I think so too, the more I think about it.

]]> Comment on those closest to our heart by andy1076 http://bleuemoon.com/2012/03/26/those-closest-to-our-heart/#comment-712 Mon, 26 Mar 2012 15:22:53 +0000 http://bleuemoon.com/2012/03/26/those-closest-to-our-heart/#comment-712 The one who is closest to your heart, will understand and feel how important your faith is to you and will accept you in every way :)

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